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PostSubject: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 5:40 am

Ok, so my best friend and I have an odd relationship in the summer. Meaning, we don't talk much, unless one of us wants to do something in which the other has to be there for, like; Take the horses to the pond, ride down oilwell road, go swimming, etc. However, we don't talk. Like ever. If we so its a few words like 'what's up' or 'how's it goin' stuff like that; unless its the horses then neither of us will shut up. lol.

I am tired of her treating me like crap and talking down to me. She has problems, I know. Trust me. I know.
Just because of that last summer the same thing happened. I spent the summer crying because I thought I'd done something wrong to screw up our friendship. Ok, so she'd call me then be like "Oh we should go in your pasture for a ride with Apollo and Metta!" I was so happy that she was talking to me I'd do anything to make her happy with me- I'm a person who likes to make people happy.

When school started she was all like... I don't know, but wouldn't leave me alone. She'd text me everyday multiple times. And we had so much fun through the school year.. then the summer came and she just decided to just drop me- well most of the time. She texted me last week and said we should take our horse for a swim at the pond. Since they love it so much. Ok, so I was super excited about doing that! It's one of my favorite things to do. So I wait, and wait and wait... I had my horse ready and we were just waiting on her to come, after an hour I got tired of waiting and went home. She told me she was coming. She never showed.

I'm tired being who everyone calls when they want something.

This summer just keeps getting better and better! Not.
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PostSubject: Re: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 5:52 am

Stupid question: Have you told her about this? How you feel?

Me and my best friends sometimes have the same problem, we're so close at school, but barely see each other otherwise.

If you confront her about it, or get her to see things from your perspective, she'll treat you better.

I haven't witnessed your relationship, so thats all the advice I can give so far!
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PostSubject: Re: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:03 am

Multiple times. I also beat around the bush, so to speak. But, she should have got the point.

It's more like I'm just second rate, if someone else calls and wants to do something with her she'll drop me in one second. That I've also talked to her about, but nothing changed.
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PostSubject: Re: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:07 am

I know this sounds REEAALLLLYY harsh.. and please don't hate me... But it sounds like you need a new best friend. She clearly takes you for granted.

Do you have other friends that you share things in common? Or other best friends?
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PostSubject: Re: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:33 am

No, no, not harsh. I've been told that a few times...

I've got Alexis, Hanna, Jaley, Bethany... and Shawnee. But, they just don't have that much in common with me.
Alexis; Loves everything I do, but she's scared to death of horses.
Jaley; She's three years younger than me, and the only thing we have in common is horses.
Hanna; She likes the same games I do.
Bethany; She's a bitch. Total bitch.. She likes to be above everyone, no matter what.
Shawnee; She's a total sweetie! But, she's also one who has only one thing in common with me.
That leaves Linz, she's got everything in common with me, even music... She likes the same bands everything! And she loves horses, but she's the one who I'm having problems with.
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PostSubject: Re: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:38 am

Maybe Shawnee or maybe Alexis? She may be scared of horses, but you could be that friend who helps her over that!
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PostSubject: Re: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:41 am

I love Alexis to death! She and I were friends when we were little, and she's an easy person to trust.. But, it's my horse's fault she's scared of horses.
Metta decided she was a jump... lol
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PostSubject: Re: What do I do? (Advice needed)   Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:42 am

Haha. xD She sounds perfect!!!
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